From My Experience: The Most Common Worries People Have When Booking a Companion (And Why It’s Okay)
I’ve had the pleasure of meeting so many different people through my work, people from all walks of life, all ages, all backgrounds. And one thing I’ve learned? No matter how confident someone might seem, nearly everyone has a few worries when booking a companion.
So I wanted to share a bit from my own perspective - what I’ve seen, heard, and come to understand from being on the other side of the booking.
“I’ve never done this before - I’m nervous.”
This is probably the most common thing people tell me when we first connect. And I get it. Meeting someone new in this kind of setting can feel a little intimidating. But here’s the truth: it doesn’t have to be. My job isn’t just to show up - it’s to help create a relaxed, comfortable experience. There’s no pressure to be anything other than yourself.
“I’m worried I’ll feel awkward or not know what to say.”
It’s normal to feel a little shy or unsure at first. Honestly, I’ve had dates where we were both a little quiet to start, and within minutes, or after a cocktail or two, we were laughing, chatting, and feeling like old friends. I genuinely enjoy getting to know people, and I’ll always do my best to help things flow naturally.
“Will it be obvious I’m with a companion, especially if we dine out?”
I’m naturally discreet, and when we’re out together, I blend in with ease. I don’t show up in mini dresses or stilettos unless you specifically request that. My usual style is elegant and understated, or casually chic - whatever fits the mood of our date.
To everyone else, it’ll just look like a charming lunch or dinner between two people who enjoy each other’s company.
“I’m not sure I’m what you’re looking for - am I too old, too young, too inexperienced?”
I hear this a lot, and it always tugs at me a bit. Because the truth is, I’m not looking for someone who fits a certain look or age - I’m looking for someone who’s respectful, kind, and open to enjoying the moment. That’s it. You don’t need to impress me or be anyone other than who you are.
“What if I say or do the wrong thing?”
Trust me, I understand this worry, too. Just don’t ask anything overly personal in terms of conversation and everything should be fine. I always approach my dates with understanding and kindness. I’m not here to judge.
“I just don’t want it to feel transactional or cold.”
I feel the same way. That’s actually why I do this - to share connection, intimacy, and warmth in whatever way feels right for us both. Every date is unique, and my favourite moments are always the ones that feel genuine and real, not rushed or overly scripted. It’s best to be yourself and enjoy the moments and that will help us to develop chemistry. I always suggest booking a longer date than you might initially think you need. It allows us to truly relax, connect, and enjoy each other’s company without watching the clock. I totally understand that some people feel nervous and assume a shorter date is the safest option - but in reality, we’re only human, and meaningful connection takes time. Let’s give it the space it deserves.
“What if she doesn’t enjoy certain acts of intimacy that I do.”
It’s important to remember that most companions offer a GFE-style experience, which means intimacy is based on mutual comfort and chemistry - not a checklist. Good hygiene goes a long way in creating a more enjoyable experience for both of you. Most companions will offer you a shower - take it. Use mouthwash to freshen up, too. When you show care and respect, it’s far more likely that you’ll both genuinely enjoy your time together.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve been thinking about booking but feel unsure, that’s completely okay. Most people do, but proceed to book and we have a great time! You don’t have to have all the answers or be totally confident - just come as you are. I’m here to create a space where you can feel seen, heard, and appreciated.
And if you ever have a question, about how things work, that’s completely welcome too.
We’re all human. And that’s what makes this kind of connection so special.