For those who believe the best connections are built slowly - through beautiful experiences shared together.
Travel Dates
Travel dates are probably one of the best ways to actually enjoy each other properly, and my favourite dates, because there’s no rushing around or watching the clock.
I love getting away somewhere for a few days and just having fun together — whether that’s staying in a beautiful hotel, going out for dinners and drinks, exploring somewhere new, relaxing at a spa, shopping, sitting by the pool, ordering room service, or just spending time together properly without everyday life getting in the way.
Once you spend 48 hours or more together, everything starts to feel a lot more natural. You get comfortable around each other, the chemistry builds properly.
I’m very easy-going to travel with and I think that’s why people enjoy taking me away. I like keeping things fun, relaxed, affectionate, playful, and drama-free — the type of trip where we both come back with good memories and plenty of inside jokes.
Click here to see some of my travel ideas.
Short of time?
Not everyone has the time to disappear on a long trip, so shorter dates can sometimes be just as enjoyable. Whether in London, elsewhere in the UK, or during one of my upcoming international tours, some of the best experiences can be much simpler - a long dinner, a relaxed overnight together, a spa day, or room service and movies.
I’m also very open-minded behind closed doors and enjoy experiences where there’s trust, chemistry, playfulness, and good communication. Kink and roleplay can absolutely be part of that with the right person, especially when there’s a genuine connection and we both feel comfortable exploring things together in a relaxed and natural way.
I tend to suit people who enjoy a more relaxed, personal connection and appreciate taking the time to properly enjoy the experience together.
As a general rule, I don’t usually offer dates that go beyond midnight unless it’s at least an overnight arrangement, so I always encourage booking enough time beforehand if you’d like a slower, more relaxed experience together.
If I do accept past 12am, hours after would be charged at a higher rate and taxi fare back home would also need to be covered.
Date Ideas
Favourite Restaurants
Gymkhana, Brigadiers & Ambassadors Clubhouse
Cipriani.
Dinner by Heston Blumenthal
Murano
On my wishlist:
Corenucopia by Clare Smyth
Berenjak
Six by Nico
Akoko
Travel:
Barbados
Mexico
Thailand
Cannes
Japan
China
Extended Arrangements
With regulars who I’ve seen consistently over time and built a genuine level of trust, comfort, and chemistry with, I’m sometimes open to more personalised arrangements that go beyond occasional individual dates. This can mean seeing each other more regularly, spending longer periods of time together and planning frequent trips or experiences together
These types of arrangements are something that naturally develop over time with established regulars rather than new connections, as I think mutual comfort, discretion, and compatibility are really important for this kind of dynamic to work well.
For many people, this style of arrangement also tends to feel more seamless financially, as it creates more consistency and flexibility compared to organising separate individual dates each time. If you’d like to know more, just ask!